Are You Beating Up On Yourself About Debt




By Mario Castagno

©2004 All Rights Reserved

http://www.fcdebt.com

When you hear the word "debt", whats the first thought or

feeling that comes to you? For most people debt is "bad" or

it becomes the "enemy" and is something that should be

avoided like the plague.

Having debt does not make you a bad person. The more a

situation is judged as being bad, the worse it gets. It's

the judgement that you have around debt, that will keep you

feeling "stuck". It's the judgement that brings out the

anxiety, the fear, the stress, the knot in the stomach.

It's the old success principle: what you focus on expands.

So what are you focusing on? Getting out of debt is an

inside job first! What that means is taking 100%

responsibility for your debts and admitting to yourself that

you have an obligation, and knowing and believing that you

will fulfill that obligation, by paying your creditors as

quickly as possible.

No one wants to be stressed, or worry about living beyond

their means. Most people are very uncomfortable talking

about the subject of money and debt. And since the subject

of money management is NOT normally taught in schools, where

do we learn about it?

From our families, friends, co-workers etc, tv shows. These

are people who mean well, and it's been my experience that

they are usually passing along information that may be

outdated, and no longer relevant for the times that we

currently live in and may or may not apply to you and your

life. It is THEIR opinions and beliefs.

Once again it doesn't make it a "good" or "bad" thing. The

answer is to find a solution that "works" for you and your

particular situation. Keep in mind, that once you decide to

become debt free, it will become crystal clear that not

everyone thinks that becoming debt free is a good idea.

Everyone from your local bank to your grocery store, want

you to buy on credit. Realize that "credit" is a tool that

can serve you, or NOT serve you. Here are some tips for

becoming debt free.

1) Admit that you have debt, and are willing to become debt

free. This is the most important step and is part of being

100% responsible, and being open to finding a solution.

Without knowing where you are now, you are probably not

going to be able to plot out a plan or map to where you want

to go.

2) Don’t add any more debt. This is all about changing

habits, beliefs, and attitudes about buying on credit. Your

attitudes about money/credit may have served you up to this

point, and the good news is that you can now make new

choices that support you. Remember "life" happens and there

may be times when you may have to use credit. If this should

happen DON'T beat yourself up. Just continue down your path

of debt reduction and the ultimate goal of financial

freedom.

3) Start to pay off the debt NOW. This seems like an obvious

and simple step, and it's simple to do and also simple NOT

to do. Afterall we are human beings, and change is not

something that we are very comfortable with. Put all your

debts on paper, so that you are clear about what you owe.

One of the best strategies to debt reduction is the

"something-something" principle. Focus on paying (1)

creditor off at a time. This will keep your energy

concentrated, and your debt reduction efforts will be more

effective, than trying to pay off everyone at one time.

4) Take "extra" money and apply it toward your debt. Where

can you get the "extra" money? Start to watch where you

spend your money. For example: using coupons, or shopping at

a warehouse club, can save you thousands of dollars over the

course of a year. These savings can be used to pay down your

debt quickly and effortlessly.

Keep in mind that your past doesn't equal your future. Look

at your current financial situation as a "learning"

experience, and an area that you are able to improve

on....versus a place that you are judging yourself for a

mistake. Many people just like you have been able to

eliminate their debt. The good news is....so can you!!!!

Author Info Box:

``````````````````````````````````````````````````````````

The author, Mario Castagno is the webmaster of

http://www.fcdebt.com,

a resource for debt reduction programs.

``````````````````````````````````````````````````````````

About the Author

Mario Castagno is the webmaster of http://www.fcdebt.com,
a resource for debt reduction programs.