Have You Lost Your Mind?!

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Have You Lost Your Mind?!

By: Sherri L Dodd

Have You Lost Your Mind?!

He was fighting me every step of the way, arched back, stiffened legs and an indignant bellow. With my mind focused on securely fastening my toddler in his seat, all else was an insignificant distraction. Even when my remote became wedged between my hipbone and the carseat and locked the doors. Even when my keys, once secured in my pocket, dislodged and fell to the floor. Yes, they were all just distractions. When I accomplished the chaotic task and my son was secured in his babyseat I shut that door and knodded with the confidence of a true champion.

Have you ever had one of those slow-motioned moments when you know you just did something really unintelligent? Well, the ton of bricks hit me right before that door slammed. My stomach sunk and I looked at my babe who was staring back at me through a slightly tinted window with those wide, bright blue eyes waiting for me to make the next move. Thank goodness the windows were cracked and more thanks and goodness that it was a cool Autumn day. But what to do next flooded my head and my heart began to race. Yes, my first thought was that nifty little yellow tow-truck, but how long would it take to reach me? There must be something else I could do, maybe try a little brute strength. I positioned my forearms between the doorjamb and cracked window as if I would miraculously pry it open...fruitless. Then, I journeyed to the back hoping that the trunk would not be locked in conjunction with the rest of the doors...to no avail. It was a terrible moment. Though I was in the family-friendly environment of my older son's swim lessons, I had to face that fact that I would have to acknowledge my glaring blunder in front of all the other kids, parents and teachers who would be observing this whole ordeal unfold.

I rushed to the owner's side, who rushed to her office to phone for help. She immediately called her roadside service. Sensibility began to seap back into my head as I noticed panic rushing into hers. I asked for a wire hanger. Yes, I realized that today's lock tops are not as easily accessible as the flat-disk shaped tops of yesteryear, but why not give it a try. I hustled back to my car and unraveled and retwisted and folded and molded that hanger into a handy widget and fished it down into my car. I weedled it around the middle of the lock at the most subtle indention. I was able to hook and yank it with a mighty jerk. The locks went up, the alarm went off and I opened my door and reached down to my back floor mat to grab those auspicious keys. Roadside was cancelled, I have a new and improved relationship with my son's swimming instructors and hopefully I have learned that some distractions are to be taken very seriously.

Perhaps you have heard the saying that for every child you give birth to a percentage of your brain. Why has it become so common that I forget things? What happen to that efficient, organized and precise thinking that I needed for my job within the high-profile corporation. If I operated in this manner in that environment I would have never made it out alive. Has each of my childred placed a deficiency in my cranial cavity? Aside from the episode above, there have been more oddities: refrigerator doors left open, milk in the cupboard and plenty of burnt meals. As the strangeness began to add up, I found the courage to consult my friends. They too had their heaping share of stories. Feeling better that someone shared my pain; I was compelled to look up more information on the web. I read stories upon stories of moms in the same predicament. I followed this observation up with medical research as to why this happens; and, while even the medical profession could not offer a clear and final explanation, there were plenty of possible excuses offered. Hormones, the fact that the brain shrinks during pregnancy (supposedly to return to normal size thereafter), post partum depression symptom, sleep deprivation and finally the distractions and chaos that come with raising children all surmised the malady quite well. The last two I am going to grasp and hold on to as my alibi...that's my story and I'm stickin' to it!

Think of the distractions your mind inherits once you find out you are pregnant - all those things that could go wrong before the baby comes, plus you have to eat for you and for the baby. During childbirth, you may turn down painkillers or epidurals - for the baby. Zero to six months are dedicated to avoiding newborn dangers and providing comfort for the baby. Toddlerhood is your period of safety precautions (aka - 'more and more dangers') for the baby. Kindergarten yields its own new discoveries of parental inadequacy and so on. One friend who is currently tormented by her oldest son's first year of middle school, says that not only does she worry about her own peaks and valleys, but now her son's middle school insecurities are fed directly into her as well. Till you are smiling down from heaven above, you will be worrying about your children and how to keep them safe, healthy and happy. Obvious, right? Well, if it is so obvious why do we as moms, wonder why our ability to focus, process information and remember things has gone to the birds? Why are we secretly wondering what is wrong with us and whether or not we are clinically losing it or just showing the early signs of senility? Why do moms begin to label themselves as stupid (a common occurance in the chatroom scripts I read), less than adequate or incapable of furthering themselves in an intellectual manner, with intellectual people?

I am encouraging all of you once fiercely sharp women to forgive this phase of your mental life. The distraction of raising children is reason enough to miss a couple cues during your daily routine. Add any type of medical matter to this package and you are to be given extra allowance of compassion. While we are so lucky to experience our children's delight and victories as they grow, so must we endure their pain and sorrow. In doing so, it can overwhelm, divert and consume our every thought. While I would love to give you the timetable of recovery, I cannot. I can only look at the many other moms and grandmothers who are still thriving and be inspired that no matter how much 'matter' you lose, there is still a chance to live a wonderfully fruitful life well into your golden years, kids included!

About The Author

Sherri Dodd is an ACE-certified Personal Trainer, a Lifestyle and Weight Management Consultant and the creator and author of Mom Looks Great - The Fitness Program for Post Partum Women. With over fifteen years of exercise experience, she is dedicated to a life of fitness as well as encouraging others to seek healthy habits and a better quality of life. Find out more about Mom Looks Great at www.momlooksgreat.com.

Comments

xxdomweatherxx20 01.06.2010. 08:18

What to do if you completely lost your mind? What can I do if I completely lost my mind? My mind has been deteriating over the last year due to precription drugs. Any way to fix it?

xxdomweatherxx20

Admin 01.06.2010. 08:18

I'd say they r giving you drugs for a reason, so stick with them. but if your concerned talk to your doctor or a different Doctor if you dnt trust ur normal ones judgement

Admin

Alvaro R 18.08.2010. 14:33

What causes you to lose your mind or go insane? I go insane or lose my mind whenever my brother always brings his kids and his kids always make a mess in my Gaming Room without supervision.

Ain't life TERRIFIC?

Alvaro R

Admin 18.08.2010. 14:33

when people cut me off and drive like jerks.
It happens far too frequently.

Admin

The Man Who Laughs 22.09.2012. 08:56

What's the quickest way to lose your mind? I expect results in 2-3 weeks. I heard once that you have to lose your mind in order to find it. Obviously the person that said that had lost his mind.

The Man Who Laughs

Admin 22.09.2012. 08:56

Try to retrieve an intact pair of socks from the dryer. It CANNOT be done, even though you KNOW they both went in there.

Admin

cassie_v 13.07.2009. 21:51

How does the quote about losing your mind go? There's a quote something about.. if you lost your mind then you should go find it bc its not good to let it be alone or wonder or something like that.... It's suppose to be a funny quote.

cassie_v

Admin 13.07.2009. 21:51

?Of all the things I've lost, I miss my mind the most?
-Mark Twain

Admin

njcardfan 25.11.2009. 16:18

How do I get my dog to stop losing his mind when people walk by the house? I have a 2 year old cockapoo who loses his mind whenever someone walks by the house or is within his field of vision like if my neighbor across the street gets a visitor. It's worse when someone like the postman starts walking up the sidewalk when he starts barking and jumping and flat out loses his mind. What can I do? I tried the Caesar Milan approach but it doesn't work. Any ideas?

njcardfan

Admin 25.11.2009. 16:18

At 2 years of age it is more difficult. Unless you are willing to take drastic measures there is no peaceful way to settle this. I know people who taser their dogs (mainly an outof-control Beagle). It certainly works for awhile. Perhaps it's time to call in a trainer if you don't wanna do anything drastic.

Admin

Red Diamond 29.11.2011. 15:05

Can anxiety make you feel as though you are losing your mind? I know I've not lost my mind, but I am really worried!

Red Diamond

Admin 29.11.2011. 15:05

YES YES YES!!! But the great part is U Know your not! I deal with it also:/. And believe the statmemt " I suffer because of anxiety ". Because we do. Dr. Can help that. It takes and calms me down so I can Think straight! And deal with life accordingly.

Admin

Blooper 12.02.2012. 01:23

Would you be willing to lose your mind if it meant happiness? Let me explain, suppose that you were offered to be given a pill that would make you lose your mind, only having illusions and living in an abstract world created by your brain. You'd only have happy thoughts and experiences. Since deranged people don't realize they're crazy, you wouldn't know your real state of mind. Would you do it even if it meant that your happiness was external to reality (and you wouldn't be conscious about that)?
Edit: But that's the point, you WOULDN'T know you're living a lie because you would be crazy.

Blooper

Admin 12.02.2012. 01:23

I am willing to lose the self out from the senseless worldly and more physical desires for the love and happiness of many lovedones. That becomes the blissful fulfilment later on.

II wish You Love and Happiness!!

Admin

bubbles 15.11.2010. 23:37

How do i choose a career that i will love? I've taken aptitude tests and stuff but i'm still lost. Mind you i am still in high school and still have time but i'm really wanting to know what i want to be. Theres so many options that i don't know about and i don't really know how to find them! Could you help me out please? Basically, do you know any websites that list and describe careers? Thanks

bubbles

Admin 15.11.2010. 23:37

Choosing a career can be a bit difficult. There are many ways to narrow down your choices. You might want to talk to some of your friends or relatives who already study or work in the areas that you are mostly interested in. Furthermore, I recommend you to take a close look at this website. It tries to find a suitable career path that matches your skills and interests. It also has information regarding current salary of different careers:

http://www.optyourlife.com/

Good luck

Admin

Nervestrong 17.08.2008. 19:12

When is the age when a guy might start losing his mind if he never ever has sex? I am 23 and still virgin. How long do I have until I lose my mind and start becoming abnormal if I don't have sex ever? Because thats the time I would decide to get married. Until then I will keep on creating art... which is my love of life.
Thanks in advance.

Nervestrong

Admin 17.08.2008. 19:12

You're not going to lose your mind because of that.

Admin

princessandrea1961 18.10.2009. 19:45

How do you make an old computer game work on a new computer.? I have the Lost Mind of Dr Brain which I used to play on an old computer. I now have 2 computers, one with XP and one with Vista. I cannot get the game to work on either. I was told that there was a way of making the game compatible with these new versions. Does anyone know how to do this?

princessandrea1961

Admin 18.10.2009. 19:45

I know that on Windows XP, you can right click the file and click the Properties tab. Click Compatibility, and check the box 'Run this with Windows compatibility for...' and then select the operating system.

Admin

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