COMMUNICATION:
How to be a good communicator and how to make the most
of your relationships:
Be interested in other people - show that you are by asking
questions (but don't be insincere or hypocritical - nice word).
Not mundane comments about the weather. Say something
interesting like: "How's the back yard?" Be tactful.
Be punctual - this shows you are responsible, courteous
and respectful of other's time.
Enjoy other people's company and have FUN.
Tell the good news (without being a "Bible-basher").
Be positive and other people will enjoy your company.
Be decisive - this projects confidence.
Like yourself and be positive about your life. Doing this will
draw others towards you.
Keep your sense of humour. Hope you've still got one after
reading all this!
Tell people what you like about them - without embarassing
them.
Be realistic in your goals, plans and desires.
Look at people, when you talk to them.
Spend time alone with your partner. Go on walks together.
If you are not in a close relationship, discuss what's happening
in your life from time to time with a close friend. If like me,
you don't have one, join "rent-a-friend".
Give and take in your relationships.
Smile often (not inanely).
Respect people (for what they are).
Recognise that right and wrong are never black and white.
There are always three sides to any story: your side, the
other person's...and the TRUTH.
Try to put yourself in the other person's shoes (only if they
fit you). I like walking a mile in another man's shoes. By the
time he finds out, I'm a mile away and I've got his shoes!
Watch, wait and listen when developing relationships
Be assertive, but cautious
Don't gossip, backbite and backstab
Personal INTEGRITY is crucial at ALL TIMES. Be true to your
values and beliefs...
and most importantly,
JUST BE YOURSELF.
About the Author
Craig Lock
http://www.craiglock.com
Craig Lock has had six books published on various subjects
with another 12 manuscripts published on the internet.