Although nursing home abuse has been in and out of the news for several decades it is still a problem that often escapes society's attention. And it's a problem that shouldn't be ignored.
All too frequently our elderly loved ones aren't getting the quality of care or the attention and respect that they deserve from many of the assisted care and nursing home facilities. Although a significant number of facilities do provide excellent care for their residents, all too many are understaffed.
Many nursing homes are also failing to provide even the most basic care. And this can lead to serious injuries or death.
This often happens because many nursing home employees are poorly trained, overworked, and underpaid. This can be - and unfortunately has been - a lethal combination.
When people are young they tend not to be overly concerned with these situations. But as their parents and grandparents begin to age they often become much more serious concerns for them.
Because nursing home residents are sometimes quite limited in their ability to communicate it is up to the families of the residents to carefully monitor their situation during their visits.
Elderly abuse is often either physical, sexual, or emotional in nature. Abuse could be also be financial exploitation or neglect.
Whenever you visit your loved ones in a nursing home you should look for any signs of abuse. And, if you see a sign of abuse you should not hesitate to report it.
What Should You Do if You Suspect Nursing Home Abuse?
If you believe that your loved one is being neglected or is subject to abuse you should first document your complaint and then express your concerns to the assisted living facility or the nursing home's supervisors.
First, ask for and make sure to obtain copies of his or her records and charts.
If you find that you will need outside assistance then these documents may prove to be invaluable when it comes time for you to back up your complaint. And, if you read the chart you may have a better understanding of the level of attention and care that your loved one has received.
In addition, keep your own records. If you see any questionable incidents make sure to note the time, date, and place along with the names of any of the people who are involved.
Specifics are much important than vague observations. For example, if your elderly relative needs assistance to go to the bathroom you might note the amount of time that transpired before an aide has answered the call button.
And, of course, note the name of the aide as well as the number of people on duty at the time.
Also make notes apropos the health of your loved one after every visit. And while there observe and make notes on how cleanly the room, clothing, and bed is. The more detailed the information you have the better.
And it he or she agrees, it would be beneficial to take photographs of any indications of physical abuse or neglect.