5 Things Divorcing Couples Can Do To Protect Their Children



In the 25 years that I have been guiding couples through non-adversarial divorces, one thing is clear. No parent ever wants to knowingly do harm to their children.

Yet, during the emotional and sometimes confusing journey of divorce, parents sometimes unwittingly put their children in harms way. There are a few things you and your soon-to-be-ex spouse can do to ensure that your children get the support they need as you make what is inevitably a difficult transition.

1. Put your kids first

You and your spouse must understand the importance of sharing the parenting responsibilities of your children. Realize that you and your spouse are a critical continuing presence in the lives of your children despite your differences. It is essential that you put aside your differences enough to value the parenting role of your spouse.

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