There are many ways to win your ex back. Most of them involve playing psychological games. Although you can get your ex back using these unorthodox tricks, most of the time, an impending breakup is about to happen again soon. This article is the no games way to get your ex back.
When you were together, you would probably call and text your ex many times a day. Now that the relationship has ended, you really should not be doing this. Just a short call or text once a week or so is more than enough to keep the door open for a patch up.
A good way to keep in touch without bugging your ex is by email. You can send some news story you know your ex might enjoy or forward some jokes or interesting emails you received from your friends.
Ponder over this if you want to makeup with your ex. Do you want to date someone else during this empty period? If you are serious about wanting your ex back, you probably would not. Don't even think about sleeping with someone else. There are some dating advice that encourage you to start dating to make your ex jealous but playing mind games like this sets you up on a real shaky foundation when you do get back together again.
I know this is unfair but don't get jealous when your ex dates someone else. Remember who call it quits? So it's not cheating or infidelity. Accept this positively. Use this chance to analyze the person your ex is dating and what your ex is looking for.
Now that the two of you are no longer an item, your emotions and feelings are less involved. As a bystander, this actually makes it easier for you to see what your ex really needs in a relationship. Be a little more sensitive and read into the things your ex says and do.
Hold your cards close to you. When you pour out your deepest emotions to your ex, you are giving your ex dominance over you. The one with the upper hand is the one who care lesser. So please, don't go telling your ex life is miserable or meaningless without them. You need to keep this from your ex so that you can at least gain back some power which is key to make your relationship work again.
Take this time to work on yourself now that you have broken up. Go get a new look, hit the gym to shed the extra pounds you have put on. Transform yourself into a new you. When you look good physically, it's a great confidence booster and when these two elements combined, you become more attractive to your ex.
The choice is yours, you can get your ex back playing mind games or you can address and fix the problems your failed relationship had. Playing mind games won't get a revived relationship going far but working on problems is the pillar for a strong relationship that goes a long way.