One of the things that take many men by great surprise is the issue of wives who admit to cheating but say that they still love their husbands. This seems as if the wives are rubbing salt to an injury, for they will appear to be lying.
Although it may not make sense to you when your wife tells you that she loves you even after cheating, there are high chances that she is honest. While cheating certainly goes very deep, you should consider the fact that erring does not mean that people no longer love the ones they have wronged. Your wife may truly love you greatly. This does not mean that she will not face the temptation to cheat with someone who gives her something that she lacked in your relationship.
Now, do not start thinking that your wife has been going through your relationship in silent suffering without telling you her needs. It is possible for her to discover something only when the other man gives it to her. As you ask yourself how she could go out and hurt you that way, you should consider the fact that she did not even plan to cheat on you in the first place. Even when she cheated, her intention was never to hurt you.
This does not justify cheating in any way. In spite of her great love for you, she pushed you to the back of her mind as she gave her needs the first priority.
When we speak of her needs, it does not necessarily have to do with sex in any way. Contrary to popular belief, women do not usually cheat with men who they consider to be better than their husbands in several ways, including great looks and loads of money. It is often because they have some needs that they feel have not been met in their relationships.
In many cases, what your wife seeks from the other man is something that you can also give her. You may realize that it is something that you could give her easily and would be happy doing so. The problem is that you are not a mind reader; hence you did not know that she had such a need. This is one of the things that create friction between couples; when one spouse assumes that the other partner will automatically know what to do.
If you are wondering how your wife can cheat while she still loves you, you need to focus on ways that will help you to rebuild a stronger relationship. Here is the secret.
Determine what she needs
Ask her about what she lacks so that you can know her real needs. If you do not know what she needs, you will not know how to give it to her, and she may seek it elsewhere again.
Give her more
Once you have determined what her needs are, find ways of giving her more than she could possibly get from the other man. Remember that you still have her love on your side.