Wouldn't it be great if there were a Dating for Dummies book on the market? There probably is since these entertaining and delightfully helpful books are out there for almost anything we might want to learn. Unfortunately, not everyone enjoys reading an entire book just to learn the basic things in life. As intimidating as it may seem, dating is a very basic for most people. If you're a newbie to the world of dating, you may be in need of some helpful tips to make dating the fun process it's meant to be.
There is nothing quite as special as going on your very first date. If it's someone you've fantasized about dating for a long time, the experience can be even better. We always remember our first date; whether it's someone we've known for ages or the result of online dating. Let's make it one of your more pleasant memories.
Regardless of how nervous and self-conscious you may feel or how much of a good idea it may seem like at the time, do not bring a friend or third party with you on a date, especially the first date. Your date will think either you need your friends' approval to be with them on a date or will realize this is your first date. Your first date should be spent getting to know each other, and you can't really do this with a third party tagging along.
If you're old enough to go to bars and nightclubs, which is where many dates begin or end, be sure you do not get drunk. Many times people will have the intention of having one or two drinks to calm their nerves and end up drinking too much and making a fool of themselves. A relationship that may have developed into something very special can easily be ruined on the first date by too much alcohol. Let your new date get to know the real you, not an alcohol impaired individual.
If possible, try to find out where you'll be going so you can dress appropriately. It can be very embarrassing to be in a dress if you're on a go carting date or some other sporting event. At the same time, a pair of blue jeans may be appropriate for casual dress but not a fancy restaurant. This is also something that can easily ruin the first date.
One last tip is do not monopolize the floor talking on the entire date. Your date may tell you they want to know all about you, but they don't want to know ALL about you, at least not on the first date. Getting to know each other should be a gradual process, not something you can expect to take place in one date. The less you divulge on the first date, the more they'll want to see of you to learn more. Lastly, relax and have fun. There was a reason you wanted to go on a date with this individual, so make the most of this date.