All these "win back your love" articles preach at you about how much hard work it's going to be to rekindle the love once lost, blah blah blah... Alright, but how about the fun part? Remember, we do get into relationships in the first place because they are supposed to make us happy. Being in love and being with the one you love is fun; otherwise we'd give up and go play video games. So here's some refreshingly fun tips for winning your love back.
Spontaneously show up for a surprise date. Pick a night when you know they're free and drop by with tickets in your hand to a local show, a concert, or other occasion. No pressure, just come out and have a fun time with you. The key here is that they associate having good times with being with you.
Offer to do an outrageous favor. This is something like, you'll pay to have their car fixed when it breaks down, or you'll wallpaper their living room, or you'll dog-sit their two Greta Danes while they leave on vacation for a week. The idea here is to do something out of character from what you normally do. Really knock them off their feet, make them say "You're crazy! Nobody would offer to do this!" Out of all the fun tips for winning your love back, this one is maybe not so fun for you, but see it as an adventure.
Invite them over to your digs for dinner. Here's the catch: cook the very best, most elaborate meal you know how! And do the whole fussy routine with a nice tablecloth, candlelight, three tenors on the stereo, a carefully-selected wine - the works! Even if it sounds corny, work in every cliche of a romantic dinner at home. Be over-the-top! It will be refreshing and different just because nobody actually does this any more.
Offer to attend as an escort while your ex goes to some event that they love. Remember, this is about tips for winning your love back, not doing what you want to do this time. Say they're comic-book fans and you can't stand the things - go with them to the San Diego Comic Convention anyway. They love action movies and you can't stand them - decide you're going to love one this time even if it kills you. They're huge basketball fans and you'd rather get root canal - show up with them at the Lakers game anyway and while you're at it, wear the jersey and the foam finger and scream for your team like your life depended on it.
Lastly, how about picking an item off their sexual fantasy wish list and fulfilling it? Whatever their one thing they've always wanted to try that you'd never show interest in, offer to indulge them anyway. Yes, you might be turned off by it or just feel silly, but what the heck - you might discover that you enjoyed it anyway!