You're back after dating someone else. It didn't go well. You can't help feeling I want my ex back. You may try to move on going for a new date after a heart wrenching breakup. But the thoughts of wanting your ex back constantly bug you. There are ways you can do to rekindle your relationship. Here's how to do it.
1) Don't waste your time and energy dating other people. If you truly want your ex back, you have to get your mind and body filled with the right energy and zest. If you're dating, flirting, or worse, sleeping around, you are not doing yourself any favor for getting the correct mindset to get your ex back.
2) Keep your self-esteem. Don't go after your ex. Especially begging for another chance, sending hordes of text messages, non-stop calling or stalking. Instead, you need to make your ex respect you and be nice to you. Hold your head high, not only will you gain your ex's respect and love but also boost your chances of getting back together with your ex if you do.
3) More often than not, a breakup ends with all sorts of accusations. Now that you have some breathing space, make a list of your ex's virtues and the things you appreciate about your ex. Start focusing on the good points rather than the bad and this is a good to do if you want to get back your ex.
4) When you do get back together with your ex, trying changing some of the old used to habits. For instance, try new things, engage in a new hobby together or meet new friends. If you're living together, try staying apart for a while. By changing how your relationship used to be, you can make it work in the long run. It's important not to fall into the same old patterns.
5) Finally, create a destiny where both of you can strive for together. While some believed that fate plays an important role in our lives, it is down to ourselves to choose the life we want to live. When you have a shared sense of destiny with your partner, there is a goal and a place for both of you to move forward together. You have to inject new ideas and scenarios when you want your ex back.