Relationship Help: Why Do I Get So Upset with My Partner?
Q: I need some relationship help. While I love my husband with all my heart, sometimes it's just so frustrating being married to him. When I feel that he's ignoring me, I get so upset, and he's usually surprised by the intensity of my reaction. Why do I get so upset with him? ~Lynn, Carlsbad CA
A: Thanks for the question, Lynn. Here are some thoughts that might help shed light on your experience:
It is extremely distressing to feel as if your words and actions have no impact (or no longer matter) to your spouse/partner