Do you suspect your husband or boyfriend is cheating on you with an online lover? They say that the woman is the last to know but you can never rule out a woman's intuition. Usually when a woman has suspicions it's because there is something really going on.
There are many signs that a man is cheating online:
1. He's secretive about his online activity
2. Spends a lot of time chatting or instant messaging
3. Refuses to share his passwords
4. Has secret email accounts
5. Has secret social network accounts
These are just a few of the signs but even one sign should be enough to cause concern. No healthy relationship should include any of signs mentioned above.
On the other hand are these signs really enough to make an accusation? Are they enough to make an accusation? Probably not but where does that leave you? The possible victim of an unfaithful man.
No one should live in such a state of fear and doubt and uncertainties. No relationship can survive with suspicion and distrust. You need actual proof to either restore the trust you once had or make an educated decision to end the relationship and move forward with your life. It is possible for you to play detective and try to spy on your man but if you get caught it will only make things worse. Either totally destroy the trust in your relationship or even push him away into the arms of the other woman.
Another option is to hire a private investigator that has experience in online infidelity investigations. These guys can find secret email accounts, secret personal ads and social networking accounts. If needed they can even do a forensic examination of your hard drive to recover deleted information that your man may be trying to conceal. If there is a potential divorce or worse custody battle it's imperative to document this in a way that it can be presented as evidence in court. A trained professional can locate your man on porn or escort service sites and document that evidence, Evidence that would be very valuable in a custody evaluation if it's collected and preserved correctly. But whatever you decide it's not fair to you, your relationship or your family to stew in mistrust and suspicion. That can only lead to more heartache.