Succeed at Dating - How to Stop Your Relationships Ending As Quickly As They Start

How quickly do you fall into relationships with men? Do you give yourself away before you've given yourself a chance to get to know him? If this is you, then you could be committing one of the biggest dating sins known to womankind. You probably also end up out of relationships as quickly as you get into them. If you want to succeed at dating and stop your relationships ending as quickly as they start, then you should take your time and get to know a man before you jump into a relationship. Here's why:

If you're not content being single, then your relationship with a man is going to be a big contributor towards your happiness or otherwise. Isn't it important to set up your relationship with a good man who will value and cherish you? You won't find out whether he's that man if you don't take your time to get to know him. It just doesn't make sense to settle for the first man who comes along, however much attraction you feel for him. If you don't look to see whether he is the type of guy who meets your needs, you risk getting hurt when you eventually learn that he never was the one for you. Unfortunately, dating is the only way that you can find this information out. Take it slowly and don't allow yourself to get attached to a man before you have found out who he is.

Many a woman, upon meeting a man to whom she is seriously attracted, is so overtaken by all the great feelings of affection and companionship, that she deludes herself into ignoring all the obvious red flags that he is giving out. Sometimes a guy will even be telling her that he's not the one for her. But she doesn't want to hear. She still jumps in feet first, and by doing so, sets herself up for dating failure. And often this turns into a repeating cycle.

The great news is that, when you take your time to get to know him, instead of throwing yourself into a relationship with him, he feels a lot safer spending time getting to know you. That's when you start to experience dating success. On the other hand if you are expressing your hopes and dreams for a future together, when he's not yet feeling committed, he feels pressured by your expectations and obliged to back off so as not to allow you to continue in your relationship delusions. This is how relationships end as quickly as they start. Many a promising relationship has been derailed by premature confessions of devotion.

Additionally, when you're looking for your own needs to be met, and you won't just settle for the first man who comes along, you indicate that you value yourself. If you want to succeed at dating, this is so important. The higher value you place on yourself, the more he will value you too, and the more he will be attracted to you. He will also want to be on his best behaviour as you are not a woman who will tolerate being treated poorly.

So, even if you don't like dating, I hope you will realise from reading this that it is absolutely necessary and your only way of getting into a relationship. And if you want to make yours a good relationship, you must take your time to get to know him before you give him your heart. If you want to succeed at dating, you must learn to let the wrong ones go. Give yourself a chance of dating success by letting a guy show you that he is the one for you and you will get past those relationships that end as quickly as they start.