Loving someone is beautiful but the ordeal of having to get over him is really terrible. There are a number of reasons why we fall in love and a number of reasons why we fall out of love. Experts believe that you fall in love with a person in whom you find your own best qualities and a contradiction of your bad qualities. And when such a person is found, he seems like your ideal match, your perfect soul mate. A common cultural and moral background also helps people fall in love with each other.
But sadly relationships end and you find yourself in situations where you have to move the past behind. All the loving memories start to haunt you. And many a times you think it would be impossible for you to start fresh because you still love him and feel attached to him. But sometimes you just have to analyze your mistakes that lead to a wrong decision. You need to first do a complete self-evaluation. You need to know what is holding you back now!
If you were happy in a past relationship, and your partner broke up the relationship, you may feel distraught and find it difficult to think about a new present. At such a time even if you meet someone else, you will tend to match up the two. And what would make it further difficult to get over your old partner is you find that he is better than your new partner.
At first you may desire to get into a relationship with someone who can only fill the sudden emotional gap created by the exit of your last partner. Though the new man may be funny, sweet and a complete gentleman, and even better than your old partner, you will find it difficult to adjust in this new relationship because the new guy would only be a pillar of strength, not a person you can love.
Then, if you enter into a relationship with someone just because he reminds you of your old partner, you will find it very tough to get over the bad past. Don