Visualization Thoughts For Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back

It's not an uncommon scenario to have a relationship end with one or both parties having doubts about whether it should have. The average adult has five to seven serious relationships in their lifetime, which tells you that at least four to six relationships end in a break-up. To prepare yourself for the challenge of trying to patch things up, you could try some visualization thoughts for getting your ex boyfriend back.

First, imagine how you first met. Perhaps it was at a party where you were both flirting from across the room. Maybe you were with your friends and he braved the gauntlet to come to you. Here, you should try to see yourself through his eyes; try to see the enticing damsel that made him want you the first time. Analyze what worked here and what didn't. Maybe he couldn't keep his hands off you, which tells you that you were looking sexy enough. Maybe he found you engaging and fun to talk to, so that tells you your personality was right for him. But maybe you also said something that he took the wrong way - that might tell you that the seeds to how you broke up were planted right there.

Next, remember your first whole day or night together. This might have been when you had dated a couple of times and were bonding. You stayed up in a motel room making love, cuddling, and talking. You talked about the silliest things and laughed together and found all kinds of things to identify with. The world was just you two. Think of this as your goal. Focus on your best day together and try to aim back to it.

One of the most important visualization thoughts for getting your ex boyfriend back is to picture your future together. Really see it as the realization of both your plans. Maybe he's going to school to be a film director - wouldn't it be something if he became famous at it and won an Oscar and you get to attend the Sherman Auditorium, with him going on stage and giving his acceptance speech and you looking up at him from your table... Or perhaps your goal is to start a family - there you are in your suburban home with a houseful of kids and pets, in domestic tranquility.

Now picture what path you should take to get there. There are probably obstacles on it. Your relatives might not like him, he might live too far away, he likes the quiet country life and you want to party 'til dawn in the big city. Now, picture yourself overcoming each obstacle one by one. Have a plan for everything that comes up. Remember, time is on your side - you now know what you want to do and your goal is clear, so all you have to do is make your way to it. Every relationship takes hard work to patch it up, but no relationship is impossible.