The person who goes through the trauma of break up is the only one who knows the real pain as it cannot be expressed completely in words. If somebody loses his/her partner because of death then it is more severe. After this there is no hope of seeing your partner again in your life. If it is a break up then there is some hope left of getting together again. But in the case of death all hopes are gone. You would never be able to see your partner again. You would remember the moments that you have spent with your partner repeatedly. In such situations we would never be able to gain back the sanity of life if you do not start thinking about