Losing someone you love through a break up is heart breaking. All you can think about is, will he come back? This question consumes your whole day. I am glad to tell you there are steps you can take to get him back. You need to look forward to the pain and hurt subsiding.
Will He Come Back? The following 20 tips will be a good start to getting him back to you. You can find even more tips at
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1. Figure out why he was attracted to you in the beginning and find that person again.
2. Act like you did when he first met you.
3. Stop all contact. I know this will be difficult but it is the most important step. There will be an appropriate time to start contact. Right now just focus on yourself and the steps to get him back. This means no calling, texting or e-mailing.
4. Take up a new hobby like exercising, basket weaving, painting or dancing. This will occupy your time and raise your spirits while you are working on your plan to get your ex back.
5. Think about if you made him feel appreciated and loved.
6. Keep your mood light and happy. This will be difficult but it is important to not let yourself get depressed. The answer is, yes he will come back.
7. Believe with all of your heart that you hold the power to reunite your relationship.
8. Be open to unconventional methods on how to get him back.
9. Did you let him be the leader and take care of you? A man needs this to feel strong about his relationship.
10. Know that he will start to wonder if YOU have found someone new.
11. Reflect on what made you fall in love with him. Remember that feeling and let go of all the negatives in the past.
12. Human nature is to want what we can't have. It is your job to become something he wants but stay just out of his reach for now.
13. Curiosity will get the best of him if you follow these steps. He will end up wanting you back.
14. The core of who people are does not change. Make sure you want him back before you begin these steps. Do not put yourself back in a relationship that is not healthy for you.
15. Do Not visit his Facebook or MySpace. Do not talk about him to family or mutual friends. Everyone needs to believe that you are okay with this break up.
16. Don't act desperate and weak. Acting this way will have the opposite effect of what you are trying to achieve.
17. Don't feel sorry for yourself. Get out and start a new life. Everything will be okay in the end.
18. Learn how to communicate effectively without anger. Learning how to fight fair and communicate effectively will enhance your relationship when he comes back.
19. Don't point blame - it took both of you for your relationship to deteriorate to this point. Getting back together will require you to let go of the past.
20. Spend time reading relationship books. You will be amazed at what you can learn about human psychology that will help in every area of your life.
Will he come back? Absolutely, if you understand the process of how to get him back.