Anita is a wonderful lady whom I had the privelege to coach and help back in April 2004! She was one of my first coaching clients and I would like to thank her very much for allowing me to share her story with you...
Anita works in Leeds as a Marketing Executive for a lifestyle magazine. She is a young, and very welcoming lady with great enthusiasm and motivation for her work. She had been in that job for over a year and half and wanted a change of scene so she could experience new and exciting things, and particularly to get away from problems.
Anita's boss whom we'll name Person A was a very harsh and rude man. She found it very difficult to commuicate with him about business opportunities or anything else and her exact words were "he'd always bite my head off!" It was quite upsetting to see a very enthusiastic and excited young person being put off for her great ideas! Can you imagine what that would be like? No wonder she wanted a job change!
"I've never felt so good before!"
Anita was really hurt and distraught and her confidence to go up to him to say anything dramatically dropped! She dreaded going to work now and didn't know what to do! Anita came to me for coaching. I worked with Anita to first get her motivation up a little so we could work to figure out exactly what she wants and needs to do from that point! After that, we worked on confidence, and in particular how she can increase it any moment! She found this quite difficult but challenging as her confidence had totally dropped and she was fearful. It was great to see her slowly working her way up the confidence ladder.
She set herself some great and effective goals and broke them down to simple action steps which she achieved! She finally had the courage to go up to her boss and do what she should have done a long time ago! Well Done Anita! This is what Anita said later:
"I was unable to take on the task of actually getting myself to change my job because my boss was very harsh and it was difficult to speak to him. He'd always 'bite my head off' when I went and said anything, but you've helped me me grow in confidence and helped with my communication to finally be able to stand up to my boss. The goals and motivation you've helped me achieve and your techniques and style was tremendous. Thanks :)"
Anita now knows how to feel and be confident in any moment, anytime, any place! Do you want to learn those secrets for just £22? Check out this Maximum Confidence 4-part email course: http://www.coachkavit.com/mc.htm
About the Author
Kavit Haria is a life and rhythm coach who runs InnerRhythm Coaching practice. He has appeared on many radio shows, newspapers and magazines and is a talented musician too. He runs a bimonthly coaching newsletter packed with tips, tools, and strategies to dramatically improve the quality of your life. Join now at http://www.coachkavit.com