Creating What You Want Out Of Life
The first step in creating what you want in life is to look truthfully
at where you are now and how you got there. This is not done so you can
experience blame or pain but to evaluate where you are and where you
want to go.
If you start to blame yourself or get into self pity or I should have's
this experience is not valuable. However, since you were doing what you
knew to do at that time blame becomes meaningless. So take your Higher
Power along on this journey and just sit back and view it like you were
viewing a movie or someone elses life. How would you critique the
players in this movie? If they were a friend of yours what advise would
you give them? Take a good look and know that what you find is just a
lesson or if you prefer a challenge to do better next time since now
you have more information to make a better decision.
Taking responsiblity for where you are now lays no blame it simply
gives you information to make future decisions that will create the
life you want to create in the future.
Many people are drifters in life. They just live day to day and don't
think about the future. So if you want different results you must
decide what you want and act differently.
What we dwell on grows so if we are just sitting around with a bunch of
regrets and troubles and all we do is think about them they grow. But
so do thoughts of creating something new. Our unconscious mind creates
the thing we have meditiated on. If we are full of fear we will draw
the thing we fear to us. So decide where you want to go and start
toward that goal and it will happen for you.
It is important to look into your heart and ask yourself is this
something I really want or am I just trying to please someone else. If
it is not something you really want to do then the subconscious will
help you by supplying missed opportunities, you will oversleep, miss a
plane, insult a contact. So look into your heart and ask yourself is
this really my goal or someone elses goal for me. Why do I want this to
happen? Example I want a million dollars is your goal. Ask yourself
what this million dollars represents to you. A bigger house, a fancier
car, more time at home, vacations. So maybe it is not a million dollars
you want maybe it is a new home. Instead of setting a money goal set a
goal for what that money represents to you.
Do you get excited when you think about your goal. Can you see yourself
doing the goal? Does energy just follow in the form of thoughts when
you think about this goal?
Your goal must be specific. I remember once I wanted an old fashioned
house like the one I grew up in. I found that house in less than thirty
days but it was on a busy street so busy I couldn't get out of the
driveway to go to work in the morning, my animals weren't safe or my
kids, it was noisey. I was not specific enough. I will just take the
information that I must be really specific and include all I will have
when I have obtained this goal. I will ask myself how will I know when
the goal is complete? What will I feel like?
The more clearly you can imagine your goal complete the quicker you
will get there. The unconscious is very literal. So involve all your
senses. See colors, smells, what will you hear, what will you feel?
The more realistic you can make this goal the more you will want it.
Set a date to complete the goal. Your unconscious mind works in
infinity so set a date to complete your goal as you might not want to
wait until after you died for the goal to complete. You have to be
really specific actually set a date in the future like by August
10,2004, I will be in my new house.
Now take that specific goal you set say a new home. You know just how
it looks, smells, feels. You know how large it is say three bedrooms
and two baths. You know what the rooms look like how many square feet
you want for each room. You see the colors of the rooms, the windows,
doors, floors. You see hardwood floors or a certain color of carpet.
You see the setting the home is situated in. You see the yard, the
parking, the storage, the garage. You see the landscaping. Does your
new home have a lot of parking? Is it on a quiet street. Imagine it
specifically as you would have it and then take it along the road to
the date you have set and manifest it.
Now that you have moved your goal forward to the place where it is
manifested look back at what steps you had to take to manifest the
goal. What was the first step? What did you have to learn to get to
this place where your goal manifested. Start now by taking the first
step. "Every Journey begins with the first step."
About the Author
About the author: Judi Singleton is the publisher of Jassmine's Journal
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