Flirt and Making Acquaintance
How to make acquaintance with an unfamiliar woman or man? It’s a perpetual problem.
The article of the onlinedatingtip.com offers a few tips for people who are
looking for their partner, how to attract the picked “victim’s” attention…
Walking in the midtown may become an adventure
Take a walk in the city center on a Saturday afternoon. Disguise yourself as
a tourist and take a camera with you. If you don’t have one, borrow or buy a
cheap disposable camera. If you catch sight of somebody you like turn to her
and ask her to take a photo of you in front of a show-place but in a way that
she’ll take the photo of you and not the background. Carry on and ask her if
you could take a picture of her. This way you create an opportunity for a conversation.
It might turn out that she is also alone and offers you to be your guide. The
camera method has another advantage: it urges you to visit romantic places,
museums, parks, where lots of singles spend their weekend afternoons. According
to a professional photographer he is always successful in making interesting
acquaintances if he has his camera with him. At the age of modern automatic
cameras you don’t have to be a professional: take a snapshot of somebody and
flirt with her.
Flirting at the university
You can attend either the lectures at the university or only the canteen, you’ll
be able to flirt. University is a good place for flirting, because of the fact
that a number of people gather there. If you catch sight of someone who interests
you, simply ask her what lectures she attends. “Which year are you in? Do you
have a determinate plan or do you study for the sake of entertainment?” The
repertory of questions is infinite. You can recommend that you take a coffee
break or go to library together. You may tell her how splendid books you have
at home and ask her if she feels like looking at them.
Flirt while waiting line
The situation is advantageous because the ones in front of and behind you are
waiting to see the same play, movie or exhibition as you. So the topic of the
conversation is given. For example if you are waiting outside the movies you
can turn to the lucky ones like this: “Have you heard what the director did
at the premier?” At the end you’ll be sitting next to your new acquaintance
at eat popcorn from the same bag.
Flirt in a cafe
At the table next to yours a pretty woman is reading her newspaper. Ask her
if there’s something interesting in it. Her answer will probably be negative,
for which you may reply: “Don’t you think that there should be a paper in which
there are only good pieces of news?” This strategy can be applied on the way
around as well, you can read out the titles or a few lines of the editorial
to the lonely man sitting at the next table. Go to the cafe on Sunday mornings,
it’s a convenient time to talk about life’s things.
Flirt in the park
You’re in a beautiful park, there are trees and birds, light and shade around
you’re solving cross-words sitting on a bench. When you look up cogitatively
you observe a handsome man rubbernecking on the other half of the bench. Mutter
silently: “Hm … Aztecan sun-god … seven letters down.” Then turn directly to
the attractive stranger: “Don’t you happen to know what the name of the Aztecan
sun-god might be? Seven letters.” After you excited his curiosity he’ll approach
you and your cross-words. You’re in for it. It’s going to be a pleasant afternoon.
To your next walk in the park take some bird seeds with you. If you catch sight
of a pretty passer-by, sprinkle some seeds toward her. Birds will troop around
her, that’s for sure. Walk to her with an innocent face and address her: “It
seems birds like you … And I know why!” Smile at her and introduce yourself
to her. This is also a successful method!
If you go to the museum…
…don’t forget to visit the gift-shop or the restaurant of the museum. You can
do other things as well in a museum than watching exhibition cases. Some people
go there to have coffee. Why don’t you follow their example? It’s easy to enter
upon a conversation. Topics seem to offer themselves: you can converse on the
exhibits, artists, the building of the museum. Don’t forget about the gift-shop:
it’s easy to make new friends among the many bric-a-bracs.
Exploit the intervals
If you go to theater, opera, to your favorite actor’s performance, don’t stay
at your place during the intervals, but go to the lounge for a drink or a cake.
If the audience are squeezing toward the buffet, step forward and take part
in the conversation. The topic will probably be on today’s play or previous
plays. Test your communicative skills and narrate a few stories about the lives
of the scenic heroes: it’s possible that by the end of the play you’ll have
shared the cheerful atmosphere of the play with your own hero/heroine.
The best place at a party is by the bar or the buffet
Why? Because people looking for some food or drink come and go all the time.
If the clambake is held in a hotel you can relocate your residence next to the
cloakroom, because the circulation is reasonable there as well: people longing
for some fresh air or fleeting the tumult or even looking for love – it’s possible
that you make new friends there. If you encounter some boring woman leave her
with some polite excuse and find another busy place. Perhaps you should look
around one more time before. Remember, you have decided to get to know as many
people as possible tonight! If you encounter somebody you find attractive smile
at her and ask her: “Wouldn’t you like to continue this conversation during
dinner on Tuesday?” observe what type you deal with, what may interest her,
use your illusions to suggest something that she will presumably accept. Dancing
marathon? Marathon race? Old horror movies? Your attentiveness and politeness
will surely attract your new acquaintance’s attention and curiosity and will
be all afire with the desire to see you again. With your empressement and cordiality
you will attract people wherever you may be.
Eat at the dining car if you’re traveling on a train
You can pack food for the trip and mumble on it alone, but why don’t you visit
the dining car? Traveling may seem shorter there and you’ll have a great time,
especially if you encounter interesting people. Perhaps your future one-and-only
is traveling on exactly this train with you. More at Internet
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