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Decorate Your Love Life
By Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.
© 2003
Christmas time, Winter Solstice or whatever holiday you celebrate
provides you with an abundance of ways to have fun with your partner
and spice things up in the bedroom or whatever room you like. With
all the gift giving and decorating, you can use this as an opportunity
to decorate your love life.
To give your lover a real treat, you can wrap your naked self in
wrapping paper or a big red bow or cover your birthday suit with a
variety of small bows strategically placed and lie underneath the Xmas
tree to be unwrapped.
There are numerous variations you could add to that scenario, such as
hanging or inserting candy canes in “special places” or
melting chocolate and pouring it over those “special places,”
(after it has cooled, of course), to be licked off.
Visit your local adult toy store and fill a stocking with a variety of
your lover’s favorite naughty toys or some new ones that you have
never tried as a couple.
Hide a special gift such as a lovely thong or sexy briefs on the Xmas
tree for your lover to find.
You could make a thong out of ribbon and use tinsel as your boa or
wrap around and dance for your lover. You could also put some bells
on your bows or your ribbon for a little added jingle.
Share a box of holiday chocolates by feeding them to one another with
your fingers and eating them off each other’s bodies. Don’t
forget to softly lick each other’s fingers clean.
Show up at your lover’s door wearing sexy lingerie or nothing
under your coat and sing them Xmas carols.
Make a homemade Xmas card and insert a naked photo of yourself.
Hang mistletoe everywhere throughout your house and kiss your lover
under every one of them or strategically place the mistletoe on your
body for your lover to kiss each area.
Making love under the Xmas tree with all the lights off except the
tree lights can be very romantic and fun.
Create a naughty Xmas land by decorating your bed and bedroom with
lights, tinsel, and icicles.
Trim your tree naked or wearing your hot Santa boxers or sexy little
Elf costume.
String some popcorn and wrap it around your body for your lover to
have a little snack.
Put some holiday lights or candles in the bathroom, turn on your
favorite holiday tunes and take a long sensual bath together.
Give your lover a homemade holiday coupon that entitles them to an
evening of lovemaking of their choice.
Present your lover with their holiday gifts wearing nothing but your
birthday suit or the sexiest underwear you can find. Don’t forget
your Santa hat!
Be sure to let your lover know how much you love them, how important
they are to you and how much you appreciate them, either by whispering
it sensuously in their ear, writing it lovingly in a poem, or
enclosing it in their Xmas card.
Oh the opportunities are about infinite. Use your imagination, be
creative and have a fun and passionate holiday.
About the Author
Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed., is a sex advisor/educator and writer
specializing in sexual intimacy and keeping the fire alive. She is
also author of the hot new sex guide for couples titled,
“Smoldering Embers-Hot Erotic Stories and Sex Tips to Light a
Couple’s Fire. http://www.smolderingembers.com/