Even the ancients claimed that you have to pay attention to a woman’s gestures
instead of what she says. Generally if a lady says “yes” she of course means
“no”. And the situation is the same on the way around.
A gesture is a gesture Body language is a discipline about non-verbal behavior,
there are more and more followers of it all over the world. Among them there
are respected scientists who attach less and less significance to words and
places the emphasis in communication on the role of body language. Reportedly
this way it is possible to tell much more and even to learn much more information
about the partner. Gestures, body language and intonation affect the communication
at a proportion of more than 90%. Words as such prove to be insufficient in
a successful communication. It seems to be simple, but despite this fact there
are still a great number of inapprehensive men. They don’t pay attention to
the women’s behavior, swallow every word they say, and muck up the opportunity
of further developing their acquaintances. But women’s gestures are univocal!
The experts of non-verbal behavior can only distinguish two types of women’s
behavior. One carries the information that the woman does not feel like having
sex. The other one means that she does. So women exploit body language and launch
such codes that men have a very difficult job to tell what they are thinking
of in fact. It would be so palpable to tell everything using words. I’ll try
to help you avoid misunderstandings: I’ve put together a guide with the help
of which beginners and “advanced users” are able to decode the behavior of every
attractive woman.
1. She pushes her fingers through her hair Clean and neat hair is as important
for a woman as acceptable height, wide shoulders and biceps for a man. The woman
who grooms her hair with high care expresses that she is full of energy and
feels like doing certain family-friendly activities. Those that are familiar
with body language claim that when a woman is regulating her hair she tries
to call men’s attention upon herself. If she repeats this activity three times
within a minute you can be sure that she would really love to be conquered.
The way she touches her hair is also very important. It tells you information
about her temperament. If she does it slowly you have encountered a cunning
expert of the art of love. Quick, nervy movements disclose impatience or embarrassment.
2. She touches the edge of the glass with her fingers Freudian psychologists
interpret it as a sexual sign. This theory is supported by the women themselves,
who claim that they deliberately pet the glass, in order to call the chosen
man’s attention upon themselves. When you enter a bar and see a full-bosomed
blonde touching and caressing her martini glass so that it’d scream, do not
think that she is expressing her musicality this way. Don’t ask her whether
she is playing the latest hit of Iglesias. This question would not be appropriate.
Instead of asking stupid questions, notice the way she is playing the “musical
instrument”. Elegant, caressing movement is a sign of intrinsic calmness, self-control
and waiting, so sit by her. Her beating a rhythm on the glass with her nails
is a sign of impatience or a broad hint of SOS, which she’s sending to her boyfriend,
who is fighting for another Bailey’s at the bar.
3. She leans on her elbow According to Aristotle a woman’s hand tells us the
most information. According to experts of body language women disclose what
they think of us with their gestures. If she leans on her hand with her chin
and her eyes seem to be thinking, it’s not always the sign of her being impressed
by your appearance. Generally the woman tries to answer her own question this
way: “Does this guy deserve me?” You do know the answer, but the lady needs
time. If you want to help her make the only right decision, be politely determinate
and determinately polite. Flash your sense of humor as well.
4. She sits back with her arms crossed together This is the worst possible
that you can encounter in a bar or disco, when you’re out hunting. This gesture
is the evidence of the fact that you’ve had the worst impression of all on the
woman and she doesn’t trust you at all. Nothing helps here, neither refined
jokes, nor nice, muscular body. The best method at the beginning of the fight
for her grace is to ask her what she’s drinking at the moment. Don’t buy her
a drink for a start because this way she’s going to think that “this guy has
no fantasy at all”.
5. She wets her lips If a woman wets her lips quite frequently, it’s absolutely
a sexual sign, unless she has herpes. According to anthropologists women give
us to understand that they wouldn’t mind us putting something between their
wet lips. Hope you know what.
6. She delves in her nose You’re wrong if you think that this is a sign of
her sexual appetite. Scientist have been arguing for years about the meaning
of this gesture. According to one group of scientists the lady is underbred.
On the other hand the other group thinks the finger in the nose symbolizes the
gross hairs of the thighs and lap.
7. She lashes her eye-lashes According to famous experts of the topic and authors
of cheap romantic stories the fast movement of the eye-lashes is the sign of
women who like to conquer men of their own accord. Besides they are emancipated,
who like to take over the duty of initiation. They aren’t waiting for your jokes
and wide smile. They undertake to initiate. The only problem with such ladies
is that not all of them will enjoy herself in the role of the doped out game.
But if you don’t mind losing the role of the hunter, swallow the bait.
8. She lets her legs swing Researchers of body language emphasize that when
a woman frequently crosses her legs or let them swing, is also a sexually charged
movement. The strongest of all these movements is when she opens her legs without
meaning it. It’s a classical Freudian opening symbol. (You must remember Sharon
Stone opening her legs in such a beautiful way in Basic Instinct.) A contrary
sign to this is when she puts her legs together. You have to interpret her choosing
of shoes in a similar way. It is very important which pair of shoes she chooses
to wear the given day. The more open the shoes are the more willing she is to
“open”.
9. She dances with her hands Having gauged the woman’s face and body most men
concentrates on her hands. This is the most natural and normal thing to do –
well-groomed long fingers, well-painted nails are significant erotic signs.
However, the way the woman herself thinks of her hands is also very important.
If she stares at them for a very long time, it may imply that something angers
her (perhaps you?). if she beats the rhythm on the table or the bar means a
similar state of mind. You think she’s a wild cat, but you’re wrong. She’s thinking
about a way how she could get rid of you.
10. She bites her lips When a woman is biting your lips, do not interrupt her
– everything’s alright. But if she’s biting hers, you may assume that she’s
nervous. Why? Perhaps you are staring at her too quizzing.
+1 Finally From the paragraphs above you can see that each and every movement
and gesture of a woman carry sexual meaning for a healthy man.
Feel her soul You look at the woman and you don’t have the least idea what
she wants from you. If you notice one of the hereunder mentioned ways of behavior,
it means that there’s one thing that she wants from you, closer acquaintance,
or even maybe sex. She leers at you, laughs loudly, ogles, wets her lips, knobs
her breasts or hip, listens to you very carefully, walks proudly, waves her
hip, her style is eye-catching, crosses her legs and then puts them back, hides
her face, pushes her fingers through her hair, enters your private area, touches
herself (smoothes out her stocking or plays with the button of her blouse),
touches the object of her interest, exaggerates her make-up or perfume, dresses
up too elegant, whispers or tries to create an intimate environment some other
way, stares at you too intensively, gauges you with her eyes and tries to stay
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