What You Give Is What You Get!

 by: Kenia Morales

Are you having a hard time relating to others? Are people offending or avoiding you? Are you unable to maintain friends? Well, chances are that you are holding the key to the door called solution. I know you might be thinking, me? What control do I have over other people? And you are probably right; you do not or, can not control other people’s actions. But, there is one thing you can do: Take charge of your own behavior.

Others actions can just be a mirror of yours, here are some examples that promote negative energy towards you:

• perhaps you are feeling disoriented and are not so much fun to be around,

• maybe you are hurtful or mean to others by saying rude comments

• Are you depressed?

• Do you nag all the time?

• Are you treating your friends and family with respect?

• Are you a gossiper?

These are just some examples of negative habits that persuade others to stay away from you. So remember “what you give is what you get”. Take sometime to reflect, and once you find what is wrong, contemplate on the possible solution and last make the possible changes. Remember no one knows you better than yourself, so the solution is right inside of you.

Love and be loved,

Kenia Morales