The role of the bridesmaid is partially decided by tradition, with some room for the bride's personal preference.First the bride is going to decide on the size of her bridal party. Maybe she would prefer just one attendant who will serve as a bridesmaid and maid or matron of honor. Or she may want something larger with a few bridesmaids. She may also add a flower girl or junior bridesmaid. Expectations will differ, depending on your role.
Flower Girl
Most flower girls are single-digit age - in other words, under the age of 10. Hopefully, she is old enough to take instructions about walking down the aisle and mature enough to sit still with her parents during the ceremony. The flower girl's parents need to know their roles, as well. They will usually be responsible for getting her dress fitted, bringing her to the wedding rehearsal and enjoying the wedding from the sidelines.
Junior Bridesmaids
While not a flower girl, a junior bridesmaid is not a full-fledged bridesmaid either. More than likely, she is a relative of the bride and groom that they want to honor. She will have to get fitted for a gown and she would probably enjoy a role at the bridal shower. She will have a full role on the wedding day - taking part in the rehearsal, marching in the processional and recessional - and probably a seat at the wedding party table.
Bridesmaids
There may be anywhere from one to a dozen bridesmaids, depending on the bride's wishes. But no matter how many bridesmaids are chosen, the duties remain the same - supporting the bride as she moves from someone freshly engaged to someone newly married.Various duties may fall to the bridesmaids - from traveling with the bride to check out churches, reception venues and disc jockeys. They may also be called on to help address invitations, select the d